How would a mother feel if during a nasty child custody battle she loses custody of her daughter?

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How would a mother feel if during a nasty child custody battle she loses custody of her daughter? She latter finds out that the father takes very good care of his daughter and she likes living with her father. The father does not interfere with the relation ship she has with the mother, but gives the mother more visitations that the courts will make him. She is a very good mother.

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Baby Girl due May 21! on 1 January, 2009 at 3:21 pm #

If she is a very good mother, I find it hard to believe that they would place custody with the father. Usually, courts rule in favor of the mom and therefore, she would likely have custody and visitation would be shared.

PJ on 4 January, 2009 at 4:29 pm #

I would think she would be unhappy at losing her child. Even if the father takes good care of the kid – it is still a loss to the mother, just as it would be to the father if the situation were reversed.

AndysWife&LillysMom on 7 January, 2009 at 10:48 pm #

I would be so upset if my husband were to get our daughter were we to divorce!!

A mothers love is stronger than a fathers love in my opinion because we carry them in our bodies, deliver them and raise them… nothing can break a mothers love.

yummy mummy on 9 January, 2009 at 12:00 pm #

if she is such a good mom why didnt they grant her custody bc they always try to place children with their mothers,so i would feel horrible,dont try making yourself feel better that she is ok livivg with her dad.whether shes happy or not i wouldnt be ok with me not having my own kids!!!

~BabyGurlDiva~ on 11 January, 2009 at 6:22 pm #

i would be upset and would never forgive myself

jaybe on 12 January, 2009 at 9:10 am #

The mother would be devastated! having the court take custody away from her probably could throw her over the edge and make an emotional wreck. If she is a good mother then that is really sad.

Vincent M on 13 January, 2009 at 5:46 pm #

I’m sure she woudln’t be pleased.

EC Mama on 15 January, 2009 at 4:30 pm #

She would probably feel devastated

Marry K on 16 January, 2009 at 4:38 pm #

wow that is a hard one, I would just hope that I would have the strength to be there for my daughter and just be happy that her father is a good one and does allow more time with your daughter then the courts allow. How old is the daughter?does he plan to change that when she is a teenager? Does he have a better paying job than you that might be why the courts gave him custody. I just hope that the fighting doesn’t go on during exchanges with the child around now that you are divorced, is all the nasty divorce stuff over? oh, and just make sure that you both tell her that it was not her fault that you. divorced and that you both love her very much, just not each other.

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