
Im from the bay area and there is a really good on in livermore, I will give you the info in a sec.
The best way to find someone is to go to calbar.org
select legal specialist search and choose family law, then your county.
You want someone who practices in your county. They will know the local rules, and will probably know the judges which only helps in that hey can second guess how he/she will rule on a given issue, not for favors. Legal Specialists have had extra training and lots of experience in family law.
If you cannot afford the $250+ per hour, call your county bar association and ask for the lawyer referral service, or go to lawhelpca.org, and select your county and family law/divorce for referrals to nonprofits who may do so at a reduced cost