wow that is a hard one, I would just hope that I would have the strength to be there for my daughter and just be happy that her father is a good one and does allow more time with your daughter then the courts allow. How old is the daughter?does he plan to change that when she is a teenager? Does he have a better paying job than you that might be why the courts gave him custody. I just hope that the fighting doesn’t go on during exchanges with the child around now that you are divorced, is all the nasty divorce stuff over? oh, and just make sure that you both tell her that it was not her fault that you. divorced and that you both love her very much, just not each other.

She would probably feel devastated

I’m sure she woudln’t be pleased.

The mother would be devastated! having the court take custody away from her probably could throw her over the edge and make an emotional wreck. If she is a good mother then that is really sad.

i would be upset and would never forgive myself